It was the Christmas break of my first full year of teaching in Canada. I was a 24 year old single guy who had just finished celebrating Christmas with my family in Toronto. I was living in the small and friendly town of Norwood, ON. At that time Toronto did not have an NBA team and my favorite team was the Celtics. This was back in the glory years of Bird, McHale, Parish, DJ, etc. Long before the internet, I got a travel book and found a place on Comm Ave. called the College Club, booked a room, a flight, and off I went from Dec. 28th until Jan 3rd to explore Boston on my own.
The main goal of my trip was to try and see a Celtics game at the Garden (the old one!). So the day after I arrived I took the T up to the Garden and tried to buy my first scalped ticket. I still don't know why the scalper wouldn't take the traveler's check. I had to head into a pizzeria, get a slice with a $50 check, and pay him with the change. I can't remember how much the ticket cost, but I found out what "obstructed view" meant. It wasn't what the scalper had said!
Well there was neat group of fans standing in an area behind some seats and they invited me to stand with them. We had a great view right at center court. I explained I had come from Canada to watch them play and we had a really great time. This was my first exposure to the AMAZING SPORTS fans of Boston. Just as the game ended (the Celtics CRUSHED the Knicks - with Patrick Ewing) one of the guys (I just remember he was from Providence) said he had a ticket to a game a few days later against the Suns (with Barkley) and he couldn't use it. He also asked me if I would be interested in heading to Hellenic College to watch a Celtics practice. I said sure. So I told this total stranger where I was staying and the next day he drove to Comm Ave. and I got in and off we went to Hellenic College.
What a great experience! I got into the practice and got to meet Parish, McHale, Ed Pinkney, and Brian Shaw. I took pics from a distance of Bird and Reggie Lewis but didn't dare approach them. I even said "Hello" to Red Auerbach,
When the practice ended we headed back to Boston and I bought my new friend some lunch at the Boston waterfront. I just remember we ate at huge fish market type place and the fish I had was amazing.
Now comes New Year's Eve (25 years ago TONIGHT). I had asked one of the employees where I was staying where a great place for a New Year's Eve party would be. She mentioned the Four Seasons had a big bash. I had brought my nice suit and so off I went to get a ticket. I can't remember the cost, but it was pretty expensive.
The party itself was a lot of fun. Some drinking and dancing (with total strangers of course) but the highlight of the night came when I felt someone tap my shoulder and when I turned around, I had to look up, WAY UP, to see both Robert Parish and Ed Pinkney standing there. They had remembered me from the practice. Robert asked me if I would like a drink. Of course I said "YES, please." I sat with them for a bit, but soon realized I was the third wheel as both of them had 3 or 4 lady friends draped off of them. I said thanks again and quietly moved away.
I waited until midnight, sang Auld Lang Syne, had a sip of champagne and called it a night.
I think it was the next day when the Celtics played the Suns and crushed them as well. It was always fun to watch Charles Barkley lose.
I headed back to Canada after having a great trip to the area of the world I would move to 12 years later with Sue and Owen.
Happy New Year!!!
I am a 54 year old male who is a LP (little person) who started competing in sprint triathlons in 2009. I have completed more than 50 triathlons, 10 half-iron distance races and 18 marathons, which included both Boston and the NYC Marathons. I have earned a BQ time 4 times. I completed my 1st Ironman in 2016 at Ironman Maryland #BeTheHammer
Thursday, December 31, 2015
Wednesday, December 30, 2015
On the Verge Of 2016.
I would like to ask a favor. PLEASE STOP POSTING the "What's your excuse?" memes with the picture of someone with a visible disability doing some athletic feat. It sends SO MANY mixed messages, the main one being, if you are able-bodied and not working out, you should be, because this "amazing" person is. Another one I can't stand is, "The only disability is a bad attitude". As if I can will myself to slam dunk a basketball simply by trying harder. There are 100's of people out there with non-visible challenges as well, who simply get disregarded because we can't see how hard their life can be. Instead of asking yourself, "Why aren't I doing anything?" ask the athlete "Why do you do what you do?" You will more than likely find out, it is for the same reason any other person competes, and that's for the personal satisfaction of being better than he or she was yesterday.
I'm the first one to admit I probably post way too many pics and details about my work-outs and races. I'm not doing that so people say "Look at that dwarf-athlete"' I'm hoping that over time, people will forget that I have dwarfism and simply see me as some soon-to-be 50 year old guy who decided almost 7 years ago, to take control of his life. Do I want to be the first person with dwarfism to complete an Ironman triathlon? Heck ya! But if someone else does that first, that's not going to take away from what I will eventually do and I'll be the first one to congratulate them. I simply want others with dwarfism, especially young children who have been told countless times, sometimes by people who love them dearly, "You can't do that because you're too small" to realize there are no limits to what the human heart desires.
I'm the first one to admit I probably post way too many pics and details about my work-outs and races. I'm not doing that so people say "Look at that dwarf-athlete"' I'm hoping that over time, people will forget that I have dwarfism and simply see me as some soon-to-be 50 year old guy who decided almost 7 years ago, to take control of his life. Do I want to be the first person with dwarfism to complete an Ironman triathlon? Heck ya! But if someone else does that first, that's not going to take away from what I will eventually do and I'll be the first one to congratulate them. I simply want others with dwarfism, especially young children who have been told countless times, sometimes by people who love them dearly, "You can't do that because you're too small" to realize there are no limits to what the human heart desires.
Wednesday, November 11, 2015
The End of my 7th Season of Racing......and on the Verge of Turning 50 Years Young.
As I prepare to start my official training for IRONMAN #IMMD16 I think it's important to reflect upon what got me to this point. There are far too many people to thank at this point and I will certainly leave someone out if I try and made an exaustive list. Suffice it to say that Sue and Owen are certainly the two most important people in my life and if it wasn't for the two of them I am certain I would not have taken this path. My mother Bernice taught me that you never give up and always finish what you start.
It's funny though, that one single act from our friend Tina is what got this idea of triathlon to germinate in my mind. She sent me the link to the following video. I watched it intently at my desk at work, and as happens to many who watch this, tears started to stream down my face. I remember it well because as the video ended a student came up behind me to ask for some help with their math. As I turned around, I must have totally freaked them out with the tears streaming down my face. They asked if I was OK and I had to explain I had just watched something that was somewhat emotional.
After watching, I thought that if Dick can do that with his son Rick, maybe I could complete a triathlon. I think that what got me with this video wasn't so much the physical feat by the two of them, but more so, the love and devotion each of them have for each other. I have raced with them both numerous times now and consider both of them, Kathy, Bryan and the rest of #TEAMHOYT my dear friends. I hope as I continue to race, I demonstrate to Owen that it isn't so much how fast you finish, or who you beat, but simply that you try your best each and every time.
At that point I was not at all thinking of an Ironman distance race. So I started to search out in 2009 and found out about a sprint distance race in Lowell, MA called the Mill City Triathlon. I contacted the race director, Claire Cloutier (Jeffrey), to explain, that I had dwarfism and wanted to compete in her race. I was SO HAPPY as she said she had no problem with that. Well, that's how it all started. I finished that race, and wanted more. I joined up with Comprehensive Racing that year and raced with them until I joined up with Achilles NYC in late 2012.
I never dreamed it would bring me to where I am today. 35+ triathlons, including 7 half-Iron distance races, 10+ half-marathons, and 6 marathons and a proud member of Achilles International and the Merrimack Valley Striders.
Every time the training or race gets difficult I think back to all the people who told me, "You can't do that because you're too short." and that helps to push through whatever pain I am experiencing.
Prove the doubters wrong. And always remember, that YOUR WILL NEEDS TO BE STRONGER THAN YOUR WON'T.
Monday, May 4, 2015
735 Days...................
It's been two weeks since the 2015 Boston Marathon and I am finally finished with my thoughts about the entire experience. Those of you who know me are aware of the emotional challenge these last 2 years have been. They of course pale in comparison to the pain and heartache countless families have had to deal with in the wake of the tragedy that occurred in our city back on April 15th, 2013. I do not for a second pretend that the depression I have gone through is anything like what others have had to deal with. But this has been my battle, and I will attempt to write down some of my feelings as I talk about what April 20th, 2015 has meant to me personally.
There are SO MANY people I have to thank before I start. I know many wait until the end of a piece to list those who have helped, but I think it's important to start first with my thank-yous. Of course, none of this could have happened without the love and support of Sue and Owen. It goes without saying, you were at the finish line on Boylston in 2013 when everything started to happen and you had the courage to come back in 2014, when I wasn't able to make it, and then again, this year.
I need to thank the Achilles-NYC Paratriathlon Team and Work-Live-Tri. My team and coaches have been amazing. Achilles invited me to join back in 2012 and they have supported and encouraged me to strive to do my best. They have helped me get to races and I never feel happier racing, then when I am in the BIG APPLE. Thank you to Kat, Ellie, Dick and all of the countless staff and guides. Thanks to Brian, my coach, for preparing me so well. I was able to qualify for Boston this past November at the NYC Marathon, thanks to his expert coaching.
I don't know if I would be racing triathlons and marathons today if it weren't for Dick and Rick Hoyt. When I first saw the ideo of them completing the Kona Ironman back in 2009, the seed was planted. Today I consider many members of Team Hoyt to be some of my closest friends. Dick, Rick, Kathy, Bryan, Dana, Meghan, Tammy, and countless others. And then my MVS family. You invited me to race the Feaster Five in 2011 and I haven't left yet. Tom, Lyn, Denise, and SO MANY others, there are too many to name. Nothing like starting the Boston Marathon and getting hugged by the entire Human Chain!!!
After getting sick prior to the race last year I was trying to be really cautious this year about staying away from germs. A lot of good that does for a high school teacher and father of a 12 year old boy. About a week prior to race day this year, I got a pretty nasty cold. I tried everything short of going to the doctor. All sorts of cold medicine, EMERGEN-C, AIRBORNE, and though things were starting to feel a bit better, I was worried I was going to head into the race with a nasty cold and a lack of sleep.
Friday April 17th
I finished teaching and headed down to Boston for a talk put on by the Harvard Book Store at the Old South Church. Meb was going to be talking about his 2014 first place finish at Boston and also a bit about his new book. It was a chance to listen to him and at the same time get a copy of his book.
It was a nice evening and I got a chance to have a quick "catch-up" with David Willey, editor of Runner's World magazine. Meb is a terrifice speaker who did an amazing job speaking from the heart.
David Willey, Mary Wittenberg, Meb, Amby, and Scott Douglas |
Saturday April 18th
I had planned to head into Boston early in the AM to watch the B.A.A. 5K and Invitational Mile races to support a lot of my friends. After chatting with my friend Ric from MVS, I knew being rested for the race on Monday was much more important. I can go in another year to watch (as I did last year), so I decided to rest at home in the morning. I was planning on heading down to the expo to pick up the finish line passes I managed to arrange for Sue and Owen, and to my pleasure, both Sue and Owen wanted to tag along. It was a beautiful afternoon for a trip into the city. Prior to heading into the expo we met up with a long-time online friend, Rachel Weeks. She is a visually-impaired Ironman-finisher and marathoner. She was there along with her guide, Brian Lane. It was a super quick visit, but I'm glad we got to finally meet in person. We walked around the expo and made sure to head to the Team Hoyt booth. Sue and Owen have met Dick, Rick and Kathy before, but got a treat today as my dear friend and runner, Dana was there with her boyfriend Giancarlo along with another friend Jennifer. Dana and I have known each other for a few years and try to connect every time I race in New York.
Dana and I together for a moment in the 2014 NYC Marathon |
Sunday April 19th
Prior to heading off to church I decided to do my last 20 minute run. It was a beautiful morning and all went well. It was a quick out and back from home making it almost all the way to downtown Salem. Church went well, and has been customary prior to my marathon races, Manny, our parish priest called me up to the front for a blessing. Again, it was a very humbling experience, but it helps me relax to know that I will be cared for while running. Knowing that others will be keeping me in their prayers during the long day goes a long way to helping me relax. After heading home I needed to make one last trip down to the expo. I was to be checked over by the USTF in order to be considered classified to run for the US Paralympic Track Team. Well, I now have provisional standing and can compete at events if I like. The problem is, they don't have any long distance events in my classification and I would never consider myself a sprinter. Before heading home I had the pleasure of meeting up with Wes Harding and his family from Canada. He is an amazing athlete who runs for Team Hoyt. His daughters are the most amazing cheering section ever.
Rebekah Harding and I had to do a "Bandana Selfie" |
We headed home soon after the meal and I started to finish getting everything ready for the EARLY morning trip down to the city. The weather forecast was calling for cool temps in the low 50's with rain coming later in the afternoon. My hope would be to finish before the rain if all went well. Once Owen came home from his party he had one very important job to do for me. It's Owen's tradition to put on my shoes to put "SPEED" in them. For bigger races he also puts on my singlet to put "HEART" in my jersey. I find it hard to race without Owen doing this. I had all my clothes ready, including my drop bag and the clothes I would dump at the start line prior to the race start. With the alarm set for 3:30AM, I went to bed, but it would be quite a while until I finally fell asleep.
Marathon Monday
The alarm went off before I knew it and I was up. I headed downstairs to get dressed and try to get out the door by 4AM. I had decided not to eat my breakfast, but instead take it with me and eat on the bus ride to Hopkinton. A quick look outside and the sky was actually partly cloudly and then I looked at the weather forecast. They were calling for the rain to start much earlier then originally planned along with some strong winds from the NE. My immediate thoughts went to the winter of training I had just completed. Lots of snow and cold temps from the middle of January all the way until mid-March. I was ready for this! Once I was all ready to go, I went upstairs to wake up Sue and give her a gentle kiss and hug good-bye. We each said, "See you at the finish line", and I headed out.
Meghan Cole from Team Hoyt |
My friend and hero, Rick Hoyt |
We arrived at the school near the starting line and there was some confusion as to where the MI athletes were to assemble with some people were telling us to go the tent with the hand-cyclists while others said we were to be in the gym of the school with the wheelchair athletes. Given the choice with the weather the way it was, I opted to go into the school. I found a spot on the floor to chill for a while and was able to spend some time chatting with some of my fellow MI athletes like Scott Rigsby, Richard Blalock, Kelly Luckett, Dahn Trang, and Cedric King to name a few. I made my
Getting ready with Scott Rigsby |
I took my usual ALEVE prior to race start and was itching to get outside to start stretching. And of course, the rain started, far earlier than expected. I went back inside for a bit, but then decided there was no time like the present to get used to the rain. Prior to heading outside I lubed up my feet in preparation for the all the rain and rubbed some Arnica creme on my legs and hips. The final step was to roll-on some BIO-FREEZE on my lower back. I quickly ditched my rain pants, tied up my drop bag and headed outside. I was left with only one remaining piece of clothing to ditch, a hoodie I picked up from Savers. The other athletes headed outside a few minutes later and then as a group we were lead to the starting line. For the 3rd year in a row, I was to be in the starting wave of the most amazing race in the world, the BOSTON MARATHON. One of the MANY amazing parts to the marathon for me, is the Human Chain that holds the runners at the start. I have been blessed to be a part of the Merrimack Valley Striders (MVS) for the last few years. The majority of the volunteers in the chain are from MVS. My dear friend Lyn, organizers this group of amazing people, so rather than list some of the names (you know who you are) and miss out on someone, I will simply say, that seeing Lyn and all the others reassured me that I was going to have an amazing day. I got a hug from my dear friend Dave (the race director) and even Tom Grilk, the CEO of the B.A.A. came over to wish me luck and remind me that I had a job to do. This was HAMMER-TIME!!!!
My 3rd time at the starting line of the Boston Marathon |
At precisely 8:50AM, the race was started and off we went. We were warned to keep to the right, but I knew we had a long while until the wheel-chairs would start, so I ran the tangents as long as I could. I was doing my best to keep to my planned splits and like my coach Brian had suggested, I was focusing on my 5K splits instead of each mile. The race is downhill at the beginning and I did my best to pull back and not go too fast. I was to hit the 5K at 39:12 and in fact, did so at 39:11, so all
Early on in the race by Eric Conti |
Photo by Bradley Rhoton |
Dr. David Driscoll |
The next few miles were the Newton hills, culminating in Heartbreak Hill, just prior to Boston College. I saw lots of friendly faces along this part of the course including but not limited to; Bill Pennington, all the Wicked Runners (Mike Fitzgerald for sure!!!) at the gel stop, Team Hoyt Support (thanks for the fig newtons Corey!!!), my friends at Breakthrough Performance (Marty!!!), and Bill Burnett of Streamline events at the water stop. If I'm leaving anyone else out, I'm
Around mile 17. Photo by Mike Fitzgerald |
The Scream Tunnel at Wellesley is great, but I truly think the students at BC are more enthusiastic. Maybe it has something to do with the kegs of beer!!! As I reached the summit and started to head into Brookline, I knew I would finally be achieving our goal. I say our goal, because I consided Sue and Owen just as much a part of this journey. As I cruised down past the church at BC and down past the green line turn-around, the crowds were starting to really fill in. I think it was at this point that my friend, Scott Rigsby caught up to me and asked if we could run together, In my mind, that would be the same as Wayne Gretzky asking if I wouldn't mind having him skate with me for a bit. Scott was the first double amputee to finish the Kona Ironman and he has done it twice. He is truly a hero of mine.
Running with my friend, Scott Rigsby. Photo by D. Fitzpatrick |
Heading up Hereford |
Almost there. |
I was lead away to the VIP tent where they kept all the MI bags. I called Sue to have her answer the phone cheering that they had seen me finish. We were done. My finish time, 6:39:52. The most important word being, FINISHED!!!
Photo by Joe Kelley |
Monday, January 5, 2015
My take on "UNBROKEN"
This is by no means a professional movie review. As I've told many people, I am not a book reader, but when I picked up "UNBROKEN" last summer, I could not put it down. It is by far, the best book I have ever read.
I also understand that most people believe that a book is always better than the movie. Now don't get me wrong, I loved the movie. It was well done, and stayed true to the story as told by Hillenbrand.
There are two important areas I truly feel are lacking in the movie and I thought I would take the time to write them down for anyone else who cares.
The real "BIRD" |
Casting of Watanabe (The Bird)
Besides Louie Zamperini, this was the next most important person to cast. When reading the book, I pictured a person very different from whom Jolie cast. Takamasa Ishihara seemed much more slender and weaker than the person I imagined. Even the one picture of the real BIRD included in the book looked like a tougher and more stocky person.
The "BIRD" in "UNBROKEN" |
It probably didn't help that I knew before seeing him that the actor portraying him was also an accomplished rock singer and music producer.
I also remember a scene in the movie where it showed a close-up of his hands. They were slender and well-manicured. They didn't look like the hands of someone who relished dishing out savage beatings.
Louie's Family
Now the movie was a little over 2 hours, but I feel the end of it arrived so suddenly. Louie got off the plane, hugged his family and then the movie was over. Of course, there was the epilogue type updates with some pics, and then a video of the real Louie running with the torch for the Nagano Olympics.
The movie left out all of what his family was going through while he was missing and presumed dead. Why was Louie such a strong person? I would imagine a lot of that came from his family, but we saw so little of it. I remember reading about them and two very important parts of the story were not brought to life in the film.
When the War Department officially declared Louie dead the author goes on to say how his family would never admit that he was gone. His parents refused to believe he was dead. Of course, when they heard him on the radio broadcast, they knew they were right. I feel this was really important to show. It would have gone a long way to help show us part of what made Louie so strong.
Of course the movie mentions nothing about the struggles Louie went through when he came home. They glossed over it in the epilogue, but so many soldiers return home after war and feel so alone in their struggles. I feel it would have gone a long way to honor all of our vets who have dealt with so many of these struggles, i.e. addiction, abuse, suicide etc.
One of the most poignant parts of the book I recall was when Louie's family replayed his taped interview from Japan to him after he had come home. He immediately lost control and ripped up the tape never wanting to ever hear it. Of course, I can totally understand why. Again, this would really have added a lot to an amazing movie. I know, it's easy for me to sit here and make a few suggestions. Thanks for reading.
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